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Having played for a bit, Charles stopped us for more instructions and to discover what we had noticed. What had we noticed?  “She moved as I was walking and it threw my balance off!”  What were we up to? If you missed the evening you need the Practice Pack!


It was during this exercise we took the mid way break and came back complete with our drinks for solutions.

 

Charles began talking about an active imagination. Sometimes we apply it sometimes we don’t. What strategies did we employ in the previous exercise? How active or passive is our imagination? Do we have some members of the group with an over active imagination? You might say that, but I couldn’t possibly comment!
 

Charles began by giving us the news that we have more than one body. (I thought these chairs were small). We have a body schema, a physical body we can map, by for example taking a sip of water and sensing its movement down our throat and into our stomach, and we have
a body image, and we have a symbolic body.
The internal view of our body, which often does not match ‘reality’, is based
on our early maps’ of who we are. This influences the way we move and hold ourselves. Charles went on to describe how much of what we know in NLP is based on our body. Our most basic and universal metaphors are body generated. He explained the four systems which are bundled together into ‘kinaesthetic’, our somatic systems, of which one is vestibular. This is intimately connected to the force we swim in -
gravity. (Probably by the stuff swimming in us gravy). It tells us whether we are upside down, our angle of shape relative to the ground and where we are located in the gravity soup. (Just next to the carrots and not far from the potatoes).

Charles told us about his investment in a virtual reality machine he was building in his garage, (did you realise he is a ‘mad’ inventor?) designed to allow the ‘explorer’ to become other animals. Starting as yourself the machine, and the special suit you would be wearing, which holds you very tight, changes your reality. At the flick of a switch Charles turns you into a buffalo. As a buffalo and herbivore your eyes are placed on the side of your head, (and that grass now tastes delicious). This of course gives you an immediate change in your perspective. Buffalo don’t like things coming at them from the front, they feel better when things, particularly other buffalo move along beside them. It’s very soothing. Then at the flick of that switch you become a salmon. No appendages and a very different relationship with gravity. Up and down becomes as interesting as left and right. You still have orientation and know when you are upside down but there is greater freedom of movement through different planes. Then Charles flicks the switch again, (well let’s face it how are you going to do that with only fish fingers?) you become a jelly fish. Completely circular how does this change your relation to gravity?
Go on use your imagination!

The virtual garage

You may also have noticed we are bilateral creatures. Human beauty is based on symmetry. We find it attractive. We look for symmetry in the world. It’s a basic sign of life. Rocks are not usually symmetrical, and when they are we humans find them particularly attractive. If you buy jewellery its value is often based on the symmetry of the stones and the symmetry of the design. Funnily enough symmetry is where we start in understanding our body schema. Symmetry requires balance and the vestibular system is all about balance. From our earliest moment we like being rocked. The movement of the sea also rocks us. Our vestibular system is intimately connected to the fun of movement. So when you find yourself ‘digging the music’ and ‘moving to the beat’ the pleasure and connection is coming from a  pleasantly stimulated VS. As a child we spin around and go on swings. Changes in this inner ear ‘donut’ are prime ways to enjoy ourselves.

 

Did you realise 95% of what we humans think is unconscious and we can’t get to it. This is not a Freudian sense of unconscious it’s a ‘somatic’ unconscious, held in our body.

Beauty is based on symmetry.

We look for symmetry in the world.

A symmetrical rock!
 

BaLAncE is everything

Our first exercise involved getting someone else to help us play with our VS. Charles suggested we find someone trustworthy to play with. As if we have any other sort of person in this group? So we engaged in a game of ‘trust’.
Full details of this in the Practice Pack.

To get us back Charles dinged his dong!

Next bit of fun With a partner to watch us and report back, plus the chance to model others.  Make sure when you try this at home that your insurance is up to date and you have written your will! Is there nothing we’ll give a go at NLP-South?

More fun. We were instructed to find a New partner. Someone interesting and different from ourselves. (Different was no problem, but interesting too?) To play with mirror neurons. You know all about mirror neurons, don’t you? Charles calls them “Monkey see, Monkey do”. But then he would. There’s more on this in (You guessed it) the Practice Pack. We played for a while with our New partner and what did we discover? Well it might be OK for monkeys but some of us found It to be harder than we thought. Some even metamorphosed into their dog to make this work. (I’m not sure I noticed the difference to be truthful).
We were of course shifting our sensorium to flex our skills.
(Madam please keep your sensorium under control, it’s squashing my chair).

And finally - How do we respond to Chance? In particular with relationship to gambling. Charles made us an offer! Proposed a wager and bet us that if there were two people in the room who have the same birthday, same day same month, he would refund the cost of their evening for them.  The purpose here was for us to notice what happened  when Charles offered the bet. What was happening in our mind / body? Particularly to our sense of balance? Did we get a rush of excitement (mine was panic, but Charles said he would fund the cost of this gamble). Guess what! There were two with the same birthday. Just two, to see Charles afterwards and claim their winnings. How did it feel for those of us who lost? Was the deflation to do with balance? Did we feel let down gently or with a bump? Did we tell ourselves we didn’t care anyway? Did we feel a sense of loss of balance when challenged by the wager? Would it have been different if we had had something to lose?

 

Thank you Charles for bringing us your great knowledge and your sense of humour and fun whilst learning.
We followed up on Friday with Charles running a workshop to include  the first presentation in the UK of

“The 8 representational systems sensorium”.

To find out more about Charles and his work in pushing outwards and onwards the boundaries of NLP and its complimentary sciences visit his web-site.
The message to us from Charles is:-

The outside is a model for the inside.
Our internal representations are modelled on what happens outside and particularly what we do with the body.

We are always using body metaphor and in particular VS words of balance, acceleration, vertigo etc.

Charles’ message to the world and the US in particular,
“We are deeply in denial about our bodies, Welcome to the century of the soma.”

 

Nigel will be talking online with Charles about this evening, about his use of NLP, about his life in general and other interesting stuff on Friday 24th November at 7.00pm . If you missed this it is available as part of the Practice Pack.

Goodbye from me, and goodbye from the “vestibules”

When I set the theme for 2008 as “How to have even more fun, Now Let’s Play” I hoped all our guest speakers would embrace the spirit of the theme and find original and interesting ways to work around it. Did I mean this to be a challenge of some sort? Maybe at some level I did. Have they (our speakers) responded to this challenge? You bet they have. From Marian Way interviewing me for our February meeting and asking “and when fun, that’s fun like what,” to Gavin Meikle in March getting us to check out the ‘well-formedness of the theme’! Tara Dominick questioned our ability to be creative about having fun in April. Peter Freeth explored the efficacy of having fun as a ‘coach / facilitator of change’ in May. Graham Shaw demonstrated how to bring fun into learning in June. Lisa Sturge helped us re-find our chuckle muscles, and lie on the floor laughing in July. After the summer break Gemma Bailey engaged us in experimenting with handling our monsters in a fun way in September. What could Charles come up with to keep this roller coaster of hilarity on track towards the end of the year? Never mind simple chuckle muscles, using the Thursday evening as a pre-cursor to the one day workshop on the Friday, Charles challenged us to engage our vestibular system (VS) and tune it up for maximum enjoyment!

When we first discussed this theme I enthused interest as I tried to recall where my vestibular system might be, and indeed if I still had one. (Some things drop off when you pass 50). Fortunately Google had none of my problems in knowing exactly what the vestibular system is, where it’s located and its function. It even showed me pictures of naked vestibular systems. (Least I think that’s what they were?)

But Google didn’t tell me what the connection was to fun, and even more fun. Fortunately Charles had the inside track on this and we spent a great evening connecting vestibularly with ourselves and each other.

At this point you may be interested to know that there are ‘vestibular altering substances’ available from all good pubs, off licences and many grocery stores. Too much of this however leads to vestibular disorientation, falling over, throwing up and partial (convenient?) amnesia. This report therefore carries an NLP-South health warning. (Do you drink much? Noo. I shpill mosht of it, hic!)
Charles has been studying “Representational systems”. The five we are NLPly familiar with are ‘visual, auditory, kinaesthetic, olfactory, gustatory’. (VAKOG) He maintains there are at least three more and the vestibular system is one of these three, and is particularly linked to our sense of enjoyment and fun. (Later in the evening he talked of eleven rep systems, but we just didn’t have time for all of them too).

Enough of this vestibular rambling, what did we do?

 

Report of meeting NLP-South October 2nd. Charles Faulkner
“Fun and the vestibular system”