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Mavis’s NLP SOUTH PRESENTATION FEEDBACK

 

Mavis began by asking the group what they would like to be clearer about as a result of being present at the presentation.  She explained that she had had a huge transformation in her life since attending Richard Wilkins and Liz Ivory’s Broadband Consciousness Retreat.  This was why she felt able to do a presentation that wasn’t tried and tested and more experimental in nature to discover a slightly different way of coaching clients.  

 

As she starts with a client Mavis she has been asking herself a silent question before she starts to work with clients:

 

“How do they identify themselves when they get the results that they get at school?” or

“What sort of person would be thinking /feeling ……x/y/z…… (e.g. ‘I’m a poor speller’, ‘I’m too fat, ‘I’m a smoker’’) or doing (e.g. ‘wrong spellings’, putting on too much weight, consuming food and other things that would have a bad effect on them) or being (e.g. ‘bullied’ or ‘the bully’ ‘depressed’ ‘anxious’)

Mavis then starts to help them to feel better about their real self by helping them to have a greater awareness (consciousness) so that they can do better than they previously thought they could.

The concept of ‘Identity’ was one of the major distinctions that had been brought to her consciousness as a result of the BC courses and one of her enlightenments was that she hadn’t applied her own questions to herself in all the years that she had been helping others.  Now having changed her concept of her own Identity she felt more able to do many of the projects that she was planning since the sad passing of her husband.

 

Although it is now widely believed that Dilts’ Logical Levels may be neither  ‘Logical’ nor ‘Levels’,  as a way of introducing her topic, Mavis listed 4 of  Robert Dilts’ concepts: The 4 Concepts and then explained how she thought about them.

 

The 4 Concepts:

Identity

Skills and abilities

Actions and Behaviours

Environment

These, for the most part, reside at an unconscious level unless we are learning something new that we can’t grasp or if something goes wrong. They are all affected by our perception and judgements, which are led by our acquired beliefs and values and these, can affect the way we think and feel. Then added to that, there are the 3 forms of Consciousness which Mavis explained to the group

 

Everyone, including Mavis, was very grateful to the willing volunteer who acted as a demonstration subject and who was asked versions of the identity questions as shown above, but not ‘silently’ as Mavis had previously kept the questions to herself.  The comments and feedback that were given while the ‘Coaching’ was in progress added to experience.  By the end of the questioning session the volunteer gained an insight into an area of her life that she wanted to change, and felt that it had been a useful experience, as did members of the group.